Dating tips for single mothers...

Have you ever thought to yourself... 'how am I going to find the time to date as well as look after my kids?' well help is at hand!

We can't promise miracles but a few simple Retrack tips can help you on your way!

Here's some practical advice you can use to save time and ensure you get with the right man all whilst giving the love you need to your kids.

Dating when you've got very little time to spare...

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How can you give the amount of time to a guy that wants to date you?

The most important thing is to be upfront and honest early on... set your boundaries with your partner.


Most guys who want to date you but don't have kids will not fully realise how much time children take up. So let your partner know up front that your kids are a priority in your life, that it's not so easy to drop them and go to him. 

At the same time keep reassuring your partner you don't care for him any less.

Why don't some men want to get with women with kids?

Frankly, who cares? Just forget them and move on. There's no point trying to change someone who is scared off by you having kids. There are plenty of men out there who will happily date you as long as you are the type of woman they're looking for.

How do you know if he'll be good with your kids?

You don't really! The upside is that many guys who truly aren't comfortable with children will have left long before they get to meet yours. The bad news is that you cannot really judge whether your partner will treat your kids in a way that you'll be happy with until he actually meets them and spends time with them.

Help on finding your Mr. Right

Be sure about who you are looking for. This isn't specific to single parents, but it is a vital part to finding the right partner for you or any other single person.

Things you SHOULD do on a first date!

First dates can be rather daunting! Even when we have done it before!

So Retrack Introductions have come up with a few tips to provide you with our top do's for dating!

Choose the right outfit...

Wearing provocative or inappropriate clothing risk making the wrong impression. You also need to feel comfortable and confident so wear something that makes you feel this way.  Keep in mind what is appropriate to the venue.

Do not wear too much perfume or aftershave...

Just because you can't smell the perfume from your body doesn't mean that you don't have enough of it. Apply the perfume on your pulse points such as behind the ears and on the wrists, and you're ready to go.

Consider to meet at a public place...

Even if you are dating someone you know, it is best to meet him or her at a public place such as a park or a restaurant. A public place provides safety and security.

Prepare a plan...

If you are familiar with your date, you should have an idea of his or hers likes and dislikes. Create a list of activities that you and your date would both love to do. Why reserve a table at an expensive restaurant if you date prefers to have a picnic by the park?

Men should still practice chivalry

We may be living in a new century, but men should still take care of women. He should open doors for women, pull the chairs for her, and letting her order first.

Listen...

Ask question and show (not pretend) that you are interested to what your date is saying. The reason why you should not pretend to be listening because your date might end up talking more about him or her rather than making it a stimulating conversation.

Look at them in the eyes...

Eye contact spells out your interest and attention towards your date.

Have fun...

Remember that the date should be fun. Bring laughter into the conversation by bringing out your sense of humor through jokes. Make every activity light and happy. However, if you see that your date isn't laughing at your jokes, don't tell another one.

So good luck with your dating guys!