Bathe
To make that first impression you want to look clean right? So no to looking dirty and smelling bad.
Remember, bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off, people will assume that this is how you are all the time.
Arrive on Time
One of the worst things you can do is turn up late. It gives the wrong impressions- you also don't want the other person to think they have been stood up!
Be a Gentleman / Lady
Simple manners such as for gents... hold the door open for her. Let her walk through the door first. Pull out her chair. Be polite to her and the people around you.
Compliments
The first thing to say to her is "you look beautiful/ nice" before anything. Keep the compliments flowing throughout your date, such as "your hair looks nice, I like the color of it, and your outfit is great." But don't go overboard.
Listen and Ask Questions
Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves or being ignored.
Prepare
The last thing you want is to be sitting having a meal and the conversation dries up, leaving you bored with each other for the rest of the night. Try and think of any questions that she might ask you, so that you can prepare the answer.
Who Will Pay?
This is a really tough question since women are increasingly independent and may want to pay their way. I suggest that you offer to pay and, if she lets you, take care of the bill. If she wants to pay, you can argue that you want to, but make sure you pay for at least half no matter what.
The Goodnight Kiss
Some women prefer not to kiss after a date while others are disappointed if the guy doesn't even try. There is no easy answer to this. So watch out for body language and little touches.
I'll Call You
Only tell them that you will call themif you mean it and intend on seeing her again.
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