Finding 'the one'...

There’s a love pandemic happening in our world today and it is that we are spending time with each other without fully understanding why we are getting together.

Too many people are wasting time and energy in relationships without knowing why they are there.

A relationship is not an antidote to loneliness, nor is it something to be experienced with anything less than full commitment. In order for a romantic bond to build and deepen with anyone I have to be able to answer the following questions:


1. What am I offering in a relationship? What do I offer that I think is good, (care, support), and what do I bring into a relationship which often causes problems (jealousy, insecurity)?

2. Am I ready to be in a relationship? In other words, am I willing to give the relationship my full commitment?

3. Do I like, trust and respect this person and do they like, trust and respect me?

The responsibility for creating a deep, loving bond lies with you, and with your partner.

You both must be up for the challenges and rewards of intimacy, and what will make you both soulmates is your willingness to give yourself fully to the other.

Find love in everyday places!

Heres a top tip from Retrack Introductions!

Find love in everyday places...

Well why not, we have to meet 'the one' somewhere!

While the marketplace is undoubtedly rife with new and exciting ways to meet your mate, nothing will ever beat the tried-and-true method of falling in love: chance.

A night class, the office, your apartment building, the café around the corner... these are all places where people continue to meet each other every day.

What’s important with traditional methods of meeting people is that you climb out of your shell and connect, for example, if you think there’s a hint of a spark, don’t hesitate to get into the 21st century and ask for a number, an email address or a Facebook ID.

There is nothing wrong with getting to know people over social media sites, but wouldnt it be great to get to know who your talking to first!

So try it, go looking for love up the road! You may even surprise yourself.

If you feel like you need a little bit of extra help check out our Retrack Introduction Services.

The definition of love...

It is interesting to see what the true definition of love is. When we say 'love' we usually represent it with the love of two people and in most cases this is what love means, however we have listed for you a few variations of love, so that when you find the love you are looking for, you can make sure that it is something special.

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3. sexual passion or desire.

4. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.


5. (used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

6. a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.

7. sexual intercourse; copulation.

8. (initial capital letter) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.

9. affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.

10. strong predilection, enthusiasm, or liking for anything: her love of books.

11. the object or thing so liked: The theater was her great love.

12. the benevolent affection of God for His creatures, or the reverent affection due from them to God.

13. Chiefly Tennis. a score of zero; nothing.

14. a word formerly used in communications to represent the letter L.

If you are looking for love then why not give Retrack Introductions a try?

We are a personal dating introduction agency, designed to help you find that special someone.

Call today or email us.

Happy New Year from Retrack Introductions

Retrack Introductions would like to wish you all a very Happy New Year and successful 2010.

For more information on how to find love in 2010 visit our website for more details.

Alone this Christmas?

Christmas can be a lonely time of year if you are single, divorced, have empty nests, relocated, or may have lost loved ones or family and this is your first Christmas without them?


If this is you then stop! No feeling sorry for yourself, no tears, do something about it! It is good to see as many different people as you can if this is the case for your Christmas.

Try and organise some social events...

• Co-workers appreciate having someplace to go and gratefully call it my “Orphan Christmas.”
• Neighbors are glad to get out of the house. 
• Non-Christian friends have an excuse to party.

Redefining tradition

Tradition is important in defining ourselves and our values, but so is adapting as circumstances change, says Purdue University cultural anthropologist Andrew Buckser.

“Holiday rituals are really a kind of play, and everyone is always rewriting the script,” he says. “Each of us is our own character, and we each have something we want to say.”

Re-thinking expectations and letting go of the goal of a picture-perfect holiday can relieve the pressure on those who find themselves without family, says another expert, who specialises in family issues.

So if you are alone this Christmas, stay up beat - positive or contact Retrack so we can help! 

Dating tips for single mothers...

Have you ever thought to yourself... 'how am I going to find the time to date as well as look after my kids?' well help is at hand!

We can't promise miracles but a few simple Retrack tips can help you on your way!

Here's some practical advice you can use to save time and ensure you get with the right man all whilst giving the love you need to your kids.

Dating when you've got very little time to spare...

Contact us via using our online dating service. It's quick, it doesn't require you to leave the house in the early stages.

How can you give the amount of time to a guy that wants to date you?

The most important thing is to be upfront and honest early on... set your boundaries with your partner.


Most guys who want to date you but don't have kids will not fully realise how much time children take up. So let your partner know up front that your kids are a priority in your life, that it's not so easy to drop them and go to him. 

At the same time keep reassuring your partner you don't care for him any less.

Why don't some men want to get with women with kids?

Frankly, who cares? Just forget them and move on. There's no point trying to change someone who is scared off by you having kids. There are plenty of men out there who will happily date you as long as you are the type of woman they're looking for.

How do you know if he'll be good with your kids?

You don't really! The upside is that many guys who truly aren't comfortable with children will have left long before they get to meet yours. The bad news is that you cannot really judge whether your partner will treat your kids in a way that you'll be happy with until he actually meets them and spends time with them.

Help on finding your Mr. Right

Be sure about who you are looking for. This isn't specific to single parents, but it is a vital part to finding the right partner for you or any other single person.

Things you SHOULD do on a first date!

First dates can be rather daunting! Even when we have done it before!

So Retrack Introductions have come up with a few tips to provide you with our top do's for dating!

Choose the right outfit...

Wearing provocative or inappropriate clothing risk making the wrong impression. You also need to feel comfortable and confident so wear something that makes you feel this way.  Keep in mind what is appropriate to the venue.

Do not wear too much perfume or aftershave...

Just because you can't smell the perfume from your body doesn't mean that you don't have enough of it. Apply the perfume on your pulse points such as behind the ears and on the wrists, and you're ready to go.

Consider to meet at a public place...

Even if you are dating someone you know, it is best to meet him or her at a public place such as a park or a restaurant. A public place provides safety and security.

Prepare a plan...

If you are familiar with your date, you should have an idea of his or hers likes and dislikes. Create a list of activities that you and your date would both love to do. Why reserve a table at an expensive restaurant if you date prefers to have a picnic by the park?

Men should still practice chivalry

We may be living in a new century, but men should still take care of women. He should open doors for women, pull the chairs for her, and letting her order first.

Listen...

Ask question and show (not pretend) that you are interested to what your date is saying. The reason why you should not pretend to be listening because your date might end up talking more about him or her rather than making it a stimulating conversation.

Look at them in the eyes...

Eye contact spells out your interest and attention towards your date.

Have fun...

Remember that the date should be fun. Bring laughter into the conversation by bringing out your sense of humor through jokes. Make every activity light and happy. However, if you see that your date isn't laughing at your jokes, don't tell another one.

So good luck with your dating guys!